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In this month's episode, Roberto and Martha chat with Melissa, a death doula and advocate for the most loving end of life experience possible for the dying and their loved ones. She recognizes the importance of communicating end of life wishes to caregivers.
Listen to their discussion about how to talk about death and dying with your loved ones, sharing your personal wishes, and navigating the emotions of end of life.
Click on the title or the picture to learn how to support your loved ones when death is near.
SDVoyager Interview March 2024
https://sdvoyager.com/interview/community-highlights-meet-melissa-mcclave-of-last-acts-of-love/
Thank you SDVoyager for giving me the opportunity to share how my work as a Death Doula allows me to be of service to the community of San Diego and beyond.
Embrace Death Workshops About Dying
Starting conversations around dying and death is simple, not easy. Very few people are comfortable talking with their loved ones about death when there is no need for urgency. Having an Advance Healthcare Directive (AHD) on hand gives your loved ones some direction when you can’t tell them yourself.
The BEST time to start the discussion over such complex issues, such as what kind of treatments you want and where you prefer to spend your last breath, is before your mortality confronts you with making hard decisions. It’s also important to ask yourself and your loved ones who is the best choice to advocate for your wishes when you can’t advocate for yourself.
Compassion and Choices compassionandchoices.org has FREE tools to help you navigate and record your options with your loved ones. As a Death Doula, I use their resources to help my clients get familiar with the myriad of options they have and may not have considered.
Everyone over the age of 18 can partake in filling out their very own Advance Health Directive https://www.compassionandchoices.org/resource/eoldgt as many times as they like. Having a baseline of your loved one’s wants and needs when they can’t make those choices for themselves is one of the last acts of love you can share.
Contact me to organize an “Embrace Death: A Workshop About Dying” event where we start the conversation that brings us closer to each other in a safe, comfortable, loving environment.